Cell phones, social frameworks and the visible moment
As I listed to this morning’s session on “Doing Something in Your community” – essentially a call to leadership – I was struck by the Visible Moment. Then the familiar jingle from a cell phone interrupted the call.
Virtually everyone in the room recognizes that a decisive moment is upon us where the capabilities to lead communities and foster citizenship have been enhanced by mobile media and social technologies. As Steve Gunderson, President and CEO of Council on Foundations, explained, the tendency is to look at the moment through the lens of technology. That both highlights and underestimates the opportunity.
While the tools empower, the real opportunity is extending the social frameworks at the heart of community foundations. Social frameworks help explain events and connect them to humans.
We’ve heard how mobile devices -- the preferred communications tool of the young and increasingly everyone – can create new forms of social and political networking. Our cellphones, ourselves.
The great sociologist Erving Goffman mapped myriad possibilities of human interaction in social space, and his observations take on a new relevance in our cell phone world. Crucial to Goffman’s analysis was the notion that in social situations where strangers must interact, “the individual is obliged to ‘come into play’ upon entering the situation and to stay ‘in play’ while in the situation.”
That’s a big idea for communities. We use our cell phones to exert our status in social spaces. As a society, we are endlessly forgiving of our own personal “emergencies” that require cell phone conversation and easily apoplectic about having to listen to others’.
As if, on cue, the ringtone heard throughout the Country Club Room was an inevitable occurence. Rather than turn it off, its owner answers, says hello, listens and talks.
Rude? Boorish bad manners? Perhaps. But the owner is exercising his right to be connected. Getting my attention, I make sure my phone is set on “silent.” At least for the moment.
The point is that community leaders now have the opportunity to make new kinds of conversations, create new kinds of social frameworks.
Conversation (as opposed to “talk”) is to genuine sociability what courtship (as opposed to “hooking up”) is to romance. And the technologies that mediate these distinctions are important: the cell phone exchange of information is a distant relative of formal conversation, just as the Internet chat room is a far less compelling place to become intimate with another person than a formal date. In both cases, however, we have convinced ourselves as a culture that these alternatives are just as good as the formalities—that they are, in fact, improvements upon them.
“A conversation has a life of its own and makes demands on its own behalf,” Goffman wrote. “It is a little social system with its own boundary-making tendencies; it is a little patch of commitment and loyalty with its own heroes and its own villains.”
Cell phones provide us with a new, but not necessarily superior means of communicating with each other. They encourage talk, not conversation. They link us to those we know, but remove us from the strangers who surround us in public space. Our constant accessibility and frequent exchange of information is undeniably useful. But it would be a terrible irony if “being connected” required or encouraged a disconnection from community life—an erosion of the spontaneous encounters and everyday decencies that make society both civilized and continually interesting.
— Dale Peskin


